According to all my yrs of experience playing volleyball...
Oops wrong. I mean after this 1 plus year of relationship...
I realise that there are just a few simple things my lao po wants but I haven't been giving her enough...
- Good morning/ good night sms
- replying her sms promptly
- initiate sms her instead of she
- spend more time pei her
- when fix an appointment with her, don't last minute change the appointment
- now and then give her a small surpise
- bring her out

see... not very difficult stuff rite?
But I just seem not to do enough.

Lao Po... I promise I'll try k?

A Couple's Heartbreak
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.
When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.What do you think were the four words?The husband just said "I Love You Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No point in attaching blame.
She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.
We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

加油加油！：D

Got 'scolded'(Fake, only say me la. Haha) by her.. This is wat she say - "Van, i told u not good to post happy and unhappy things up so much le" Okok, See but blog is for us to be in the way for us to express our feeling out after all..! If not wat the point of having blog for? Well she will say this is not wrong too.. But of course u will think first before posting my thoughts.. and i know wat to blog and not to blog..! Won't blame her..! Heehee.!

Sat is so boring for me now.. Still can remember the past 4week working at G2.. Now back to the first place where we have to wait for James to finish teaching tuition then go out..! Now waiting for my pay now.. So i can spend anything i wan le..! Also must wait for James to get his pay.. Faster faster i can't wait for pay day..!