♥Mr & Mrs Chua♥

HK Trip

2011-08-21T20:41:00.002+08:00

Yeah!

1st time to HK... My baby's 2nd time though. So it is her who is "bringing" me to HK!

Day 1

The flight is scheduled at 0800H. So we had to be very very early in order to check in on time. But my dear Baby... as blur as ever... brought me to the wrong terminal. What a good start to a trip! Haha... But it also gave me a chance to take the skytrain from Terminal 2 to terminal 1! Anyway we were early so it was all right. Then she provided me with the 2nd blunder of the day when she brought me to the wrong check in counter. Well... guess it means I better be familiar with the HK map myself?

The plane trip was all right, with a reasonable breakfast and even some local newspapers for us to read when we boarded the plan. So spend the 4 hours journey between sleeping, reading the papers and eating.

Clearing the HK customs wasn't really a joy, the queue was quite long and it looks messy as the queues are all winding. After passing through, found that I appreciate the "gathering pt" that was set up for passengers to locate their travel agencies agents. It was easy to find our agent who later directed us to the vehicle which brought us to the hotel.

She had quite abit of grumble abt the hotel... but well, as what I kept emphasized, we'll not be in the room for most of the time other than sleeping. So not really much pt to get a better room or better hotel. But when even I had issues with the hotel... guess that it is really not so good? 1. They gave us the wrong type of room when we indicated specifically during the booking with the travel agency. While I can't be sure who made the mistake, I'll expect the hotel to rectify the problem with some form of apologies. But them seem quite nonchalant abt it and took their time. 2. Toothbrush and toothpaste was missing from the room.

After finally settling down, we took the MTR to find the Le Cha Xuan that was listed in one of the books. Their MTR is similar to our MRT, with some special features such as the jing ying section which I guess ppl are asked not to speak loudly on their mobiles? There is also a VIP section where there is larger leg space... which obviously cost higher than the normal fare.

Took some time to locate the shop... but I took it as walking along the Hong Kong Streets. HK is a very interesting place. High rise modern buildings can be built alongside old run down buildings. The contrast is quite drastic. In Sg, such buildings are probably clustered together by themselves. Well... HK is much much bigger and harder to manage?

Back to the shop. Baby told me the shop number is 90. So we stepped into the shop 90 which is a tea shop. But the only problem is... the title of the shop is not what we looking for. The shop assistant was very hospitable. So we spent some time inside the shop looking ard... But I kept thinking something was wrong as I did walk pass a tourist holding on to a Le Cha Xuan bag. So we decided to leave the shop for awhile to "consider", while I verify the address with baby. Apparently... my baby didn't tell me there is a B to the shop number... i.e. 90B. Interestingly, the shop is located a the side walk, not very prominent (especially compare to no.90). The shop assistant also appeared not very interested to serve us, other than serving us a cup of tea after we entered the shop. We ended buying a tea set. (Afternote: We had tea for 3 days in the week we came back... see how long we can last :> )

Spend the night of the 1st day at the Nu Ren Jie. It is a long stretch of road where vendors sell a number of stuff, apperently mostly targetted at tourists. It is quite similar to our flea market... But really need to be aware of how they quote the price. There was one shop who quoted us 30HKD for a magnet, which she later offered to us at 5HKD. Also saw a couple of ugly scenes of vendors appearing angry after tourists decided not to buy after bargaining.

Before I missed out, baby brought me to a famous dessert store selling mainly mango desserts. The queue was... horrible. That's the most appropriate word in my limited vocab. The queue for takeover is like a queue to snatch freebies! There was basically no queue as pple squeeze towards the counter to have their order heard. The shop was also like a war zone as the staff were running in and out to prepare and sell the mango drinks... Thankfully we found a seat inside the shop and simply took our time looking at the scene. Shld have taken a photo.. damn...

Day 2.

Join the complimentary half day city tour in the morning. Other than mandatory tips to the tour guide and driver, we also had to pay for the dim sum breakfast and chinese lunch. The itinerary included Repulse Bay, Aberdeen fishing village, Victoria peak, jewellery factory and chinese herb shop.

I must say I'm quite impressed with how the tour agency runs this "complimentary" city tour. Leaving aside the possible commission they earn by bringing tourists to the venues, the tour guides sell local delicacy on board the bus. They show a list of local delicacies from a famous shop and promises to deliver to the hotel the night before departure. Sounds like great service right? Most were enticed to it, including us. They also provided souvenirs from Disney land for sale on the bus. Futhermore, they'll put photos taken into a plate-like souvenir, which u will feel bad to not buy it when they have already made it.

The jewellery factory was a interesting experience. They have an introductory breifing, which they will introduce the key items for sale. Their most popular item is this "4 leaf" like thingy. At the start of the introduction, the breifer stated that there will be a free gift who the person who could ans a question. Ended up... guess who answered the question? Me! Thanks to my years of schooling, I managed to easily spot the question during the breifing, as such I answered the question with ease. But again, it's another brilliant money-earning act... as the gift was a "gem", which they offered to mount it on a ring for a discounted price. Of coz... I told the "gem" without the ring... since it was for fun.

Other interesting places included the repulse bay where there were many statues. We went to touch the god of fortune and walked past the longevity bridge...

After the half day tour, we walked around in Tsim Tsai Tsui before going to Tung Chung as recommended highly by SL. The place feels like IMM, with all the shops being factory outlets and crowded with ppl.

Next we went to the shopping centre beside Kwai Fung MTR, which was recommeded by our tour guide as the "local" shopping centre. There were 2 attached shopping centres, one was to the more high end crowd and the other to the general public. We went to the other, which is quite similar to our far east plaza with lots of shops selling clothes and other stuff for the young. Baby bought some clothes while I enjoyed some local snacks... haha. We even walked out of the shopping centre to walk along side the streets, where activities are still aplenty with shops selling all sorts of stuff. Bought a bowl of herbal soup from a stall... which I must say... powerful. Now that I think of it... my starting to pain throat didn't give me any issues after that.

Day 3.

Spend most of day 3 looking walking around in town and buying the local delicacies to bring home. It was a Mon morning... but it still seem to be like a weekend as the streets was still full of ppl. But we did get to see the delivery men and all the other workers working!

Just before departing for the airport, we shopped at the shopping level below the hotel. Interestingly, we found imitations of the "4 leaf" jewellery that I mentioned earlier. So bought a number as souvenirs for our family... haha...

Back to the HK airport and returned quite reluctantly... The flight was delayed by approx 40 min, which gave us abit more time to do some shopping at the airport. Bought the roasted goose rice in case baby didn't like the plane dinner (first time I tried it!).

Reached Sg at 0100H... and I had to work the following day... OMG!

James (will blog more later on the trip k?)

2011-07-31T22:27:00.002+08:00

Dating: 28 July 2007

Engagement: 28 July 2011

Wedding to be: 28 July 2012

To all my Best Friends/Sister

2011-07-31T14:49:00.004+08:00

Maybe because i'm young there are many people who thinks i have not made the right choice to marry him or if he is the right guy for me.

So let me ask those who think the way that i have just mention: "Tell me then, What is the correct time to tell me he is the correct guy or i make the right choice?"

WHEN? Maybe even i'm 40 years old i still don't get the answer (Is not a matter of age to decide ok)

Recently i have been thinking of a friend of mine that has similar issue we had.

Which is all our friends around us dislike both our boyfriend (either because of attitude or something else)

Even myself i dislike him too. But i come to think why must i care about as long as she is happy and they are perfect match that will do.

I'm not sure if you are happy or not for my choice. But i REALLY HOPE you can respect my choice and i REALLY WISH to celebrate the happiness with my Best Friends.!

2011-06-26T22:03:00.007+08:00

Hey,

Back to blog once again...

19 June: This little girl simply loves her uncle SO MUCH..

Send us to the bus stop, cried when we board the bus..

But when comes to grandparents leaving she did not even send them out..
So nowdays kids only love those who play with them...! -.-"

Us: We have been very busy recently, and we are like a old married couples somehow.! Cute lor..!

2011-04-28T08:28:00.002+08:00

The both of us have been very busy recently..!

We went to look for our wedding banquet, actual day highlight, blah blah blah...

7may is the day where we are going to place deposit for the banquet le..!
The wife to be have to work in order to have enough cash for our wedding and honeymoon..!
But I seem to be spending more than me not work!

In fact, soon I will be working very unhappy and stress..

Dear have 6/7 weddings this year..! Omg

2011-02-15T22:45:00.001+08:00

James to Van:

She may always be nagging at me,
She always complain I dun sms/call her often,
She is always playing on her iphone,
She may have un-understandable nonsense at times.

BUT

She monitors my expenditure to save up,
She is nice to my parents & friends,
She takes care of me when I'm sick/hungry,
She totally dote me & love me!

Loves you too much :)
From: Your Big baby

Van to James:

He is not a romantic guy,
He don't have the time to accompany me most of the time,
He is always busy on the phone calls from office,
He cannot give me all his attentions to me.

BUT

He work just to hope i'm living good,
He work for our future,
He work to support the family,
He totally dote me & love me!

Loves you too :)
From: Your baby

2011-02-15T22:16:00.002+08:00

Celebrated our 4th Valentine's Day!!!

Didn't know it was our4th celebration in fact, Was kind of shock haha...!

As usual, bf NOT romantic at all...! NO flower, NO present until the following day which is today then got flower :(

Haiz....!

Ok, I shall wait for my dear to proposal ba! Wanted to get married on 28 July 2012 (Also our 5 years anniversary) SWEET huh!? :D And it happens to be SAT too! Checked, it's a good date/day to get married.!

> Wedding Package (Bridal Gown Package) = Signed

> Banquet = Booking soon (Stupid huh, haven't proposal jiu book)

> Flat = BTO-ed (Ready in 2014-2015)

But am i too young to get married at this age (21-22 years old) ? OMG!

2011-01-25T11:49:00.003+08:00

Since this blog is so down, maybe i shall post it here...

Bf wanted to take half day leave today BUT as what i expected (Cannot)

The boss is on MC, tmr on leave..! :( It's kind of SAD... In fact i'm SAD...

I know i have love him too much and this may not be a good thing at all...

He dotes me, He love me..

But i need his attention. -.-" Ok i'm attention seeker (WHATEVER)

我觉得我们的爱不再存在。很伤心

亲属和朋友不喜欢你，我不明白为什么。

我问他，我们的关系是我们两个人的或是包括家庭的。

我害怕有一天我会要求分手。我害怕我不能再忍受了。

我知道我不应该这么容易放弃的，因为我在一起有3年6个了。很开心！

好不容易走到在这里。

最后，我仍然爱你的，我的亲爱的男朋友。

我知道我应该放弃，如果我不爱他，但我仍然非常爱他。

2010-12-31T23:28:00.002+08:00

3o Min more to end of 2010...

This year we went for two short trip...

July - Batam

Dec - Cameron highland...

Next year planned to go HK but depend la... 50% of going nia...

Wish for 2011:

We will love each other more...

Together till i die...! (I'm selfish)

Ok gtg, no mood to blog la...!

bye~ Vanessa was here on 31 Dec 2010 11.30pm///

2010-08-18T14:00:00.007+08:00

Celebrated our 3 year anniversary!!

~Love him to the max~

Not going to help him do his finance le... Since is so pointless for me to do! When i said i DISLIKE people who borrow the money and don't even care to return back! (even is family member who borrow the money)

Even u lend also need to see got extra cash right? haiz!! shall not carry on saying le...

有借有还，再借不难！

But i guess few days later, i will still help him! haiz! Too soft-hearted le!

2010-06-21T16:14:00.007+08:00

Tmr is the day to select our flat le! Whee!

But my first choice is taken by queue number 9!

%#@$&%#

My first choice! haiz!

2010-05-28T13:14:00.002+08:00

Wow it has been more than 3 months for not blogging here! Well, i could say we are busy..

Handling with works and study!

Yes... Vanessa is working as a part-time baker that she has set up with her friend... :)

As for James he is full time work and part-time study! Therefore we are very busy!

Ok a little updates...

HAPPY 34MONTHS ANNIVERSARY!

2 more months to be 3years! Wow...

Got our BTO result! And waiting for selection... Most likely to get the flat (Key of the hus) in 2014 or 2015! By then we need to have our marriage cert before 2014! :)

Ok.. I wish to have a 5 room flat but the one we BTO for got no 5room! :( THAT IS VERY SAD! MY SPACIOUS HUS! :( Haiz...

(Vanessa was here)

2010-02-09T21:22:00.003+08:00

This blog is totally dead! So maybe i should vent my anger here?? Haha!

For him... Think he could have forgotten this blog ALREADY!

Well, Short update first! He is working and studying now! Is just quite hard to manage his time!

As for me; i'm still studying! Hopping to continue study till i get a degree cert lehz.. (I wan more & more lol, at 1st only say wan diploma now ----- haha) Somehow is not easy la.. Where do i get $$$ to study? A diploma course for just 10months cost me 5K le.. Imagine if a Degree course is about 2-3years which will cost about 30K??? Humm! Could be huh! Maybe i should go check it out! If possible why not study la.. Don't wan wait till i old le then study!

Haiz... he already no time to study and work well le.. How is he going to accompany me? Wow who can kill me? 2years lehz! No easy man!

- Got to study 3 times a week

- Got to work (almost 20hrs le)

- Got family to take care of

- Got to meet up with friends once in awhile

- Got to spend time with me

Gosh 1 day only 24hrs lehz.. Siao la! I don't like it! So what if he busy then i find my own things to do when i don't really have much things to do? I don't want to gap to be FAR APART! ALL I WAN WAS YOU TO BE NEXT TO ME! Yup earning is important and spending times with loves once is also important ma... Else don't date! *My advice

And after saying so long! He is STILL in office lol.. From 7.30am till now???? And skipped his lesson for ytd and today? Oh my! KILL ME KILL ME KILL ME PLS~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I know as a good gf for him, i should be more understanding huh... But will you do the same as me? I know i WON'T (cos is not totally on being understanding a not but a couple being together happily) If he only cares about his work and studies then how would you feel? When u felt nothing special from your another half ACTION... Or maybe you love him too much and won't care about all this???

2010-01-18T18:50:00.002+08:00

好久好久没来这里blog了。。不知道我们的读者还在吗。。

我们两过的还好，上个礼拜吵架罢了。。哈哈。。

想要知道的话，就去我的blog看吧。。

IN ADVANCE HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR

BELATED MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR(2010)

ALL THE BEST PEOPLE! FOR YOU AND ME BEST DREAM/WISHES...

2009-10-11T13:31:00.004+08:00

2009-09-19T15:01:00.002+08:00

OK, WE WILL BE GOING GENTING NEXT MONTH!

2009-08-26T23:02:00.000+08:00

Actually I have plenty things to say but once I’m in I don’t have the feeling to say anymore.
But I will still try my very best to say k…

I was bathing just now and now I’m taking a chance to blog when dear is bathing…
In fact I have finished bathing quite a long time! But i got lots of though that came to me…

I’m a failed lol! I don’t have a trusted friend that I can tells all my thing to! Ok maybe I do have it but I wan a friend that can guide me along and who don’t say my things out! True friends are really hard to find…

Recently the both of us quarrel quite a few times more than the happy time together… Make an example: Mon “Quarrel”… Wed we ok le… Thur “Quarrel”… This is how it happen lol! Every 1 happy day – 2 quarrel day! 

I know I’m not being an understanding GF to him…
我知道我很无理取闹！I’m sorry!
I don’t wan to continue like this!
I wanted to be an understanding GF to you! But somehow I will still angry or unhappy about it! I’m not forcing you to do anything! You can just leave me alone de…

But I guess he won’t be reading this ba!

2009-08-06T11:37:00.000+08:00

Had a small quarrel with him on Sunday on small little things!
Went missing in Bukit Panjang area (Bangkit la)! Haha!
Sms-ed him!
He saw the msg and runs around Bukit Panjang to look for me! Haha!
Don’t wanted him to look for me actually! Haha!
Made him run around Bangkit then to BPP! Saw him full of sweat!
So Sorry! In the end still told him where am I la… Hiaz!

2009-07-29T09:53:00.002+08:00

Decided to blog first…

Celebrated our 2nd year anniversary yesterday…
Heehee, its 2 year…

两年不算长也不算短啦！

~Took time off
~Went Jurong Point, Shop for present but still can’t find the best present for him…
~Design a cake for him with my own creative…
~Waited for him, met him…
~Went to marina square eat…
~Went to take photo…
~Went to esplanades listen to “After Six” (In fact we plan to walk pass only but I wan to take a seat and enjoy the air-con) A group of people that come from NUS…
~Went to Singapore River Boat??? Ya…

~Then home sweet home lol…

IT’S NOT ROMANTIC AT ALL…. Still have to wait for my flower….
ALSO NO SURPRISE AT ALL….

Upload the photo next time!

Vanessa here!

2009-07-11T13:40:00.014+08:00

Went to read Val blog just now... And then she uploaded the photo to blog from photo bucket... And so she make me feel that i should upload up to blog my too.. Also i wan to revenge la.. But i feel that this blog here is too over quiet le... So i decided to upload the photo up here... Feel free to tag me... :D

~Bernice Yeo~ It's been a long time i see her...

Liyi- We still look the same right now lei...
(Photo taken on 4 Oct 2007)
Huh so long ago de... Was force to take!? Maybe
Yeah~Revenge! Val smile too! Haha!
This photo make us laugh the whole day that time!
Well, we have graduated from STC that time,
But Val has no cloths to wear
So she wear back her old STC uniform.... I wounder if Siew Lian see this,
Will she keep laughing non-stop lei!
Hummm. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . On our way to Changi Airport (I think so)

Got too many picture to upload le... Decided to put into video...

2009-06-16T21:00:00.002+08:00

No news of us! Haha!

James found a job le... Working soon next week... Now in camp!

Now me, Nothing much Still working but hopping to quit! :D

2009-05-16T12:17:00.013+08:00

As what he say,I will upload the photo up but he didn't ask me to upload lei...

The Cake I brought for him where he claim that i lied to him 2 time...

~Blur~

2009-05-13T19:23:00.002+08:00

Long time no see!

Haha... Its been decades since I last posted anything here or my own blog. Largely due to my involvement in my fyp and job hunt process. FYI, I still belong to the unemployment category.

But anyway... wanted to blog about what my lao po did for me on my bday. My ger is always my ger. She did a plastic crystal flower (with the help from almost any1 she could find) and a... what should I call... A poster of such of all my photos? I'll let her upload the pictures for you to see. Oh yah... she also ordered a cake for me. Since it was mother's day cum my bday, it was a duo purpose cake (again pls refer to pictures).

Hmm... maybe I should complain abit... she lied to me 2 times to get my cake. That day she asked me to meet her at BPP. So when I was about to step into the shopping mall, I received a call so I talked outside since reception should be better. Then I saw, Donald's Car driving past me. So after the call ended, I gave a call to lao po and she lied to me that she was still in the car. (When I saw only Donald inside the car). So her 1st lie failed and she tried the 2nd, which was that she told me to find her at Harvey Norman (top storey), when she was in fact at the lowest floor. I felled for it and only found out she lied again when I called her once more, which I assumed she already successfully ordered the cake.

See lie to me 2 times... hump hump hump...

2009-04-18T15:11:00.032+08:00

Took some random pic at Senotsa on 27march (If i'm not wrong)

Went in for nothing but just to walk around only!

Ok - I forced him to jump! Haha

And so he did! :D

As i said we are baking cookies last tue? Took some pic too...

To prove that he play with the flour!

Punishment is to wash the things!

He was at his bro hus and saw this,

and there he goes thinking if he can fit in!

So he tried!

Went Senotsa with him, Val & her BF on Wed!!!

But we were together for awhile only and then we go our own, they go their own! Haha!

The last time wanted to try on this eco-ride but was closed! And so we tried this time round... At first was kind of scary but it ended up fun! The next time round i will be playing this only at night! Nobody and is cooling! Yeah!

He is about to fall! Wahaha!

Wants to die???? Humm?

金鸡独立！Haha!

He asked me to take this saying that - he like seeing boats!

Then what about me??? Hump!

I LOVE this picture THE MOST!!!

Nice lol...

Nice huh!

Forced him smile like this! Haha! 变态

Oops so am i! I looks so enjoying!

PRO...! I tried many times but still can't do so nice! LOL

2009-04-06T15:30:00.001+08:00

Is rusting! Haha!

Baking Cookies tmr!

2009-03-15T17:08:00.008+08:00

Photos do the speaking!

See again! I didn't force him to take! So unwilling!

We don't get to play! Only those sitting at yellow seat! :(

2009-03-14T16:13:00.001+08:00

Well, went to Val’s blog and saw her saying that she went to play kite! And it reminds me that I HAVE NOT EVEN PLAY KITE WITH HIM BEFORE! Haha, serious ma? Yes! Maybe some other day ba! Have to wait till his FYP is done! Everything have TO WAIT TILL HIS FYP FINISH!

Things he own me
~Duck Tour
~Singapore Flyer when the IR is done
~Haagen Dazs
~A Boat Ride
~Sentosa
~So far 3Pei Lao Po day!

So not sure to the new blogskin la!

2009-03-03T21:44:00.002+08:00

VAN

Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education
Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.

The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:
You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.

JAMES

Your view on yourself:
You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education
Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.

The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
Success in your career is not the most important thing in life. You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.

What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

2009-03-02T16:35:00.001+08:00

Sometimes I do find myself being every unreasonable…
Let’s not quarrel again can? Never! Pls?

Is time for me to grow up (oops wrong should be is time for me to be mature le)

Vday!!!

2009-02-16T20:46:00.003+08:00

Hehe.. finally could spend my Vday with my lao po this yr...

Met lao po at causeway pt about 1 plus... gave her the flowers... which although she was still grumbling at not getting the mini toons flowers she prefer... but i know she's still happy... somemore my flowers got 1 bear bear press liao will say "i love u" 1... hehe...

proceed to sakura at admiralty for buffet lunch.. pricing was reasonable at 22 for wkend lunch... somemore its international buffet... though variety not really a lot... but we had our big share of salmon sashimi which was of reasonable quality... haha... went out to walk at the admiralty park... caught sight of 2 monkeys and took photos of them...

went over vivo after that... bought a photoframe for donald (since its his birthday) and printed one of his and mummy's photos to put inside the photoframe... haha... end up i think mummy liked it more... haha...

den went over to sentosa... nothing much... simply walk walk...

ended the day with mac (abit funny for Vday right?) but i was too full for anything...

The most impt thing abt vday is being with your love one. It doesn't not really matter what u do.

2009-01-27T12:09:00.000+08:00

Happy Chinese New Year! (Mooooo......)

2009-01-14T21:12:00.004+08:00

你的愛情能有到80 年???

希望你们也能够做到也能够拥有这样一份相伴到老的爱情, 我想这样的人生真的也算很完美吧 , 不求不平凡但求真真实实 \ 认认真真, 放在手心里珍惜着 ,这也来自于你的一份责任感 , 真诚的祝福大家.

平凡就是美

15 岁的时候，我说:'我爱你'.你的脸红得像火烧云，头深深地低着，摆弄著衣襟，你好像在笑。

20岁的时候，我说我爱你，你把头靠在我的肩上，紧紧地挽住我的手臂，像是下一秒我就要消失一样。

25岁的时候，我说我爱你，你把早餐放在桌上，跑过来刮了一下我的鼻子说： '知道了!懒虫，该起床了！

30岁的时候，我说我爱你，你笑着说：'你呀！要是真的爱我，就别下了班到处跑，还有，别再忘了我叫你买的菜！

40岁的时候，我说我爱你，你边收拾碗筷边无表情的嘟囔着：'行了，行了，快去帮孩子复习功课去吧！

50岁的时候，我说我爱你，你打着毛线头也不抬：'真的？你心里是不是巴不得我早点儿死掉。 '然后就咯咯咯地笑个不停。

60岁的时候，我说我爱你，你笑着捶了我一?shy;：'死老头子 !孙子都这么大了，还贫嘴！

70岁的时候，我们坐在摇椅上，戴着老花镜，欣赏着 50年前我给你的情书，我们已?shy;布满皱纹的手又握在了一起，那时侯我说我爱你，你深情地望着我，你那已 ?shy;皱纹满面的脸仍是那么美丽?shy;?shy;炉子上的开水咕嘟咕嘟地冒烟, 温馨的暖意充满了整个屋子 ......

80岁的时候，你说你爱我。我什么也没说，因为我流泪了，但是那是我人生最最快乐的日子，因为你终于说出了那句 '我--爱 --你'。

2009-01-06T20:50:00.006+08:00

I'm sleepy!!! Thought that i have enough sleep de... NVM forget it... At least i have a free night to do the thing i wants to do... No more rushing of 9pm show every mon to fri! Heehee!

Nothing much! Changed anew blogskin! Which the both of us find it funny and cute!

Poor Mr Chua, till 25 Jan no calling of lao po or po po! Or else fine $2! Heehee!

HAah! Took by me~~~~~

I look so like an auntie in this pic... All thans to Mr Chua!

See, i took for him so nice lol!!!

2008-12-30T19:55:00.001+08:00

Coming to 2009… Here the list that Mr James Chua should do in the following year!

1) Better temper
2) More time with me
3) More surprise
4) More romantic

In fact there are many more de, but yes keep some face for him ba… Heehee!! Mr Chua u knows what should do for now le hor?

2008-12-21T11:18:00.022+08:00

Busy eating her food only...!
Take 1 Take 7

FINALLY!!!

The aunties of our R/s stats!!! ~lol~

Looks scary hor...!

Our Sentosa membership card!

So girl hor!

Heehee ~baby!

Act man only!

So UGLY of this!

2008-12-21T09:59:00.002+08:00

Brought a MP5 player yesterday at Sim Lim Square #02-82… We actually went there the day before which is Fri… But due to most of the shop has closed so decided to go back again the next day… Wanted to get a touchscreen de but the resolution is lower then another one (The one I brought) and is only different by $10… Ok that about it…

Mr Chua is helping him brother to shift the hus… Lol… Well, then I can only waits for him to come most likely to be at late afternoon or evening le…

It’s been real long time we update the blog here… We are both busy… VERY BUSY!
Mrs Chua is having her IA now in Jurong island and is killing her lol…

Well, Have not been studying at all… Going to die if I still don’t study..! Bye…

2008-11-27T14:40:00.007+08:00

Didn’t go to school today again… Actually I was on my way there le… But half way I was asked to go home… Lao gong sended me home before he head to school to study and for meeting at 3pm… Actually I wanted to cry in the train le… I control till I reach home lei… I really cried… I hate to be at home alone… And I’m unable to meet him tomorrow as well… How sad is this? I know i should not be so un-understanding now just that how I wish he with me all the time… I mean especially for now (My ankle and leg)

Lao gong i don’t think u will be reading this today but I wan to tell you - Lao gong I misses u so much now… I wan you to be next to me now… Like u say I’m still a kids that still don’t grow up… Lao gong………………….........

:( *Tears*

You have just left me about an hour ago only… How am I going to “survive" for the next 40hours??? Can I meet u on Fri? Pretty pretty pls!

This blog looks dead here…!
The 50th post of this blog!

2008-11-15T14:51:00.009+08:00

Arh………………….
It’s going 3pm and Mr James Chua is still NOT here!!!

(People who read my blog will know le)

I’m really boring la…

Anyway it’s been a long long time I blog here!!!

Wait I go get my photos into my laptop first!

Ok back… Here are some photos on the 2 NOV!!!
Cute & Funny….
Then some with Kat on Tue 11 NOV!!!

Photo time:

My Family shirt! Heehee

Val with her sexy post!

Kat lol!
Forcing me taking photo!!! Non-stop

K enjoy your sat ba!

End my blog here at 3.20pm! James is still NOT here! >.<

2008-10-28T21:59:00.001+08:00

It has been a long time since we blog!

I’m felt so unhappy this week! Wat a week for this week la! But this is not the worse yet. Yet to come but soon like Nov, and it was like the WHOLE of Nov k! Cos end Nov James having Final exam, will have to leave me alone for the week! Mid Nov have class test 2 which he will have to study again! Still have his project to complete! OMG! This sad! What wrong with me!

Less meeting this week, less pei me this week!

What wrong with me again? Why am I super moody this past few days? Gosh what wrong? Not enough sleep? No lao gong pei? Haiz >.<

Ignore me if u wants to!

2008-10-20T22:23:00.001+08:00

Very emo now… Wanted to scold Venise right away I’m really f***ing angry RIGHT NOW of her k. I know I should not use the word and that not me. Never believe I would use it ba.

Got scolded/nag by ah ma not long ago. Feeling bad now Maybe I have walked the wrong path, while Venise has walked the correct path for herself but she will never understand how life is. (I believe so) She thinks she has no wrong in shouting towards her mum with “SHUT UP LA”

How rude is that? Well, Venise is at the totally wrong in shouting in this way but they (the grandmother and aunties) said that she has NO wrong in talking back in the rebellious way! Cos at her age is alright with it, there are more people worse then her.

Maybe yes I have a soft-hearted heart that forgives easily but Venise is a different case. I understand how my mum is feeling right now, she is so sad to see her daughter like this and I saw how hard she try to do her best as a mother once again after a mistaken happened 2years ago.

I feel sad for my sister. This time I’m not going to talk to her till she says sorry to me and not to me only. Even how she hates Donald or who ever is, she shouldn’t be in the way like this!

I’m better now. Who can make Venise wake up?

2008-10-19T13:49:00.003+08:00

Nothing much but just very unhappy this 2 day! Not because of my hubby, but my little sister…

She is making me angry, my mum very sad (always crying) Notice that once we talk about her, she will cry! I know how a mother dote on her own daughter, but for my sister she still don’t understand and even we are telling or explaining to her is also useless, she won’t even wants to listen it at all!

People with better understanding will know how to do a clear cut so no one will suffer more. But for her, still don’t understand it at all! She heading to Sec 1 next year, she should know le ba. She is listening to what other people on advice but not her own family member! This is really very sad you know! I don’t wish this to continue to drag on!

I don’t mind she wants to become a vegetarian but she should let us know is that the case!

When everytime I see my mum is crying just because of Venise, I don’t know what can I do… I know we (Moomoo & me) are in a different path already! But no matter what I still love to have this sister! (somehow la)

We will never know who has got to the correct way…
Maybe I have gone to the wrong way of it…

I still find the temple is just not really good for me…
Yes I learn and understand many things… The temple should be in a way that there no me and you is us… I don’t find it there… Even I saw how my grandmother has been through, but I still don’t think is good….

I won’t regret it, cos this is what I have to go through…
Nothing is a smooth sailing…

Today is just so abnormal of me!
Back to my normal self soon!

Tmr morning 7.30am must reach sch lol…

2008-10-12T15:08:00.015+08:00

Photo for this few days!

Flyer!

Cute guy will do this only????
Present from Liyi, It's winnie the Pooh! ^_^
Wat make u think of ??? Something tat very A
I was so angry, i throw my son into this!
Present from Lizhen

LiZhen

My eye only have you!

Roof Top

Fish Spa!

My lao Gong is just so cute!
For DreamGals photo will be posted up in our blog!

Waiting for kat to send me first!

Lao Gong is referring to me posting his photo up!

2008-10-08T22:25:00.002+08:00

Few more hours to end my birthday! :( Kind of sad, i don't get suprise or any romentic from lao gong..! But anyways thanks to all people, more will be posted up on my blog soon! :) once again thanks people.. No flower again...! >.<

My Lao Po birthday!!!

2008-10-07T23:56:00.002+08:00

Happy birthday lao po!!!

To regular visitors of this blog: Haha... long time never see me blog liao right?

But thanks to my lao po who constanly updates this blog and keep it alive with photos... some which I don't particularly like to be featured... this blog looks lively!

Oh yah... before my lao po grumbles about how not romantic I am... let me admit to every1 out there 1st. I am not romantic! I think my lao po didn't get a romantic birthday she expects to have. But still... The most important thing is I love you right lao po?

My lao po is 18 liao... Older and wiser liao...

and 1 step nearer to be official Mrs Chua!!!

Happy birthday Lao Po!!!

2008-10-06T21:08:00.005+08:00

Heehee, today Lao gong wear until so cute lei…! Then help him take photo lol! And hor look abit like uncle lol! Gosh, I don’t want to become auntie lei! Haha! He is so going to kill me lol…

The final one for his resume!

Out, cos he is smiling!

The face looks fatter now!

Oops

Feeding him too much liao!

Not bad we are really husband and wife!

Take close up photo not nice at all cos of the eye! Both the same! Haha!

2008-09-30T17:01:00.003+08:00

Changed a new blogskin! Haha Super cute blogskin...

Well, Finally free to do my last wed picture!

The DIY Ice-Cream and the Cookies we baked! Haha!

Nice lei.. Nice as in it taste nice and look nice too...

Hope this blog skin is nice ya! :)

Tag more people ^_^

2008-09-26T21:27:00.004+08:00

We are now the sick couple...

James - Running nose, fever

Vanessa (me) - Running nose, cough, throat infection

Sian liao...!

2008-09-20T15:05:00.003+08:00

I love you Dear aka Lao Gong :D

It's magic each time we hold each other, each time we cuddle, and each time we kiss. I feel goosebumps all over again. I never want to let you go for fear of losing you, so I just hold on a little bit tighter each day, refusing to let go. You will never know the warmth I feel inside me when I'm with you. You're all I ever wanted.

2008-09-12T21:11:00.001+08:00

Haha, Got our ring liao!

2008-09-10T19:32:00.002+08:00

Very first time with him to Chinese Garden! And i just love this two photo!

So does he, He like the bridge the most! Haha

我爱你老公 !

Thanks for the ring, Heehee i love it!

2008-09-03T12:49:00.003+08:00

I was praying today won’t come for me. There is no meaning at all 1) I don’t have the mood to study for test tomorrow (all thanks to my ahma once again) 2) I don’t want to go over her house see her still nagging non-stop. Is just this two reason only yet I don’t want to see this wed. Yesterday night I can’t get myself to sleep. I cried the whole night (actually not really la, was just tears coming out (between it, it stop from 7pm to 10pm only la) oh my. Do I have to face this all myself? This morning woke up wanted to force myself to continue sleeping. Even I know I need to go out to take a passport size photo to hand in tomorrow to my CA. I don’t get it, I just remember when is always our (Moomoo and me) exam coming she (ahma) will starts her unreasonable attitude again and starts to create problem.

I’m now at Beauty World McDonald; darm a passport photo of 6 cost me $12 just to make myself looks nice. And I spend too much today already cos I took a cab here. I’m having headache since I got up. Haiz is this a bad week for me?

To James (Lao gong):
Thanks for cheering me up, I know you tried hard le. And don’t feel bad after reading my post. Thanks for being there for me when I’m sad or even happy, crazy. I enjoy it very much. Even no one gives me the support for our relationship; I still want to trust my own too. Cos am the one who choose to be living with, not anyone else but myself. Even I make the wrong choice I will NEVER regret. I have tried hard not to listen too much to what ahma say cos it will lead me to think a lot. I know it too and I’m trying to change.

2008-09-02T15:13:00.007+08:00

This post not for anyone but to myself to express my feeling now.. My feeling now is so bad, and confuse and sad and kind of irritated.. (Hope my spelling is correct) Today was suppose to be pei lao po day and should be a happy day and i should be baking cookies now de, now is all gone. :( This morning went out for breakfast at causeway point then off to watch my 11.30am movie show Money Not Enough 2 after then shop around take bus go home and tat the point of time my feeling totally change..! So does James (To cool himself down in order not to quarrel with me, he went to sleep once he reached my house) I don't mind cos i also don't wan to end up like this too. This is what happened: Ah Ma called, said why Donald is staying at my house i didn't tell her & i bluff her), then why i go bring/show James to Ah Gong. Then why i bring/show Ah Gong then how about her? Then moomoo every morning sit Donald car to school also didn't tell her. First why is she making so big deal now? (Although i know she does care about us la) She is just so unreasonable la, i try to kept quiet let her nag all the way she wants! (She nag all the way from i get up the bus till i get down) No matter how much she cares about us, she should not say some hurting words what. I bring/show James to Ah Gong does not mean I'm not going to show her or want, I'm not trying to tell you people that James is going to be my husband for now. All i wan is to let u people know who am with. I do try to intro my friends to my family too cos i find it that at least my family knows who I'm with, who my friends, who i usually hang put with. Must this be a reason to intro my friend too? And What wrong with a age of my age dating now? So what if is my first time working ended up having a bf too? Must this be a reason too? Is just the timing came what! I can be like a kids but i can think too. [Heard that she given birth to my Mum at the age of 19 but till my Er Yi was born having my Xiao Yi in the stomach then she was married] She afraid that my Mum has walk the same as her (Not totally la) and she think i will do the same. I didn't say i don't want to bring/show her ar, that why i arranged on the 19Sep what. She (Ah Ma) think that Mummy asked me go back, now trying to ask Moomoo come back home then once she back, Mummy will ask us to disown her. Why does she think this way? The more she think this way the more it will happen lol. I sick of all this family problem. There is one sentence which can be describe only 儿孙自有儿孙福！Haiz. This family problem will never ends, I'm serious no matter how i wish everything is settle down. I know she already trying to give in, i not sure how good she is at seeing people, but i wants to trust myself. I wants to believe in myself. How i wish I'm now 21 years old so i can do whatever things i want even leaving the house to a place where no one knows me. No ones understand my feeling right now, guess what i feel like crying lol (tear got so much de lei, just now watched $ no enough 2 also cried le, what a touching show is more then there no $ lol, the mum just her life up when i have the mood then i will you more ba) Mummy can't stand Ah Ma, Er Yi can't stand Ah Gong (The opposite way too for both), Er Yi can't stand Xiao Yi whole family. What wrong with everything? Ah Ma afraid for Donald is a guy who wants sex and $ only. What This?? Donald can't tahan it, so does Mummy, so does James, Xiao Yi, Moomoo, and Me! Can't tahna Ah Ma i mean! So what if we just told her off/ Does that help answer will be NO it will only become worse. I don't care who reads this post, this is the only way to express all the thing i wants to say now! I HATE IT, Seriously i can't take it anymore. I didn't say i wants total freedom but i can have my own freedom and privacy de ar! What is going wrong now? In any case, no one understand feeling right now. :( I have spend 1 hr typing all this. OHNO!

2008-08-31T00:53:00.011+08:00

...MY SWOLLEN HAND...

...NEOPRINT...

2008-08-28T18:59:00.003+08:00

Haha, Went to see a doctor today just for my swollen left hand..! >.<

Well, Today is just a normal day but is our 13th months anniversary..!

Went out to Causeway point with granny, changed her shoe and help moomoo buy her teacher's day present.. Hump not going to buy for her next ime come back black face not even a thank u at all..!

Today not meeting dear le.. He not free.. NVM, i try find something to do myself..!

Tomorrow meeting my ah gong for dinner..! I wonder if on my pre celebrate my birthday if i ask my ah ma, er yi, xiao yi's and her family and james to go.. Is it ok? As a intro to them too!! Aiya NVM...!

what my lao po wants...

2008-08-22T21:56:00.003+08:00

According to all my yrs of experience playing volleyball...
Oops wrong. I mean after this 1 plus year of relationship...
I realise that there are just a few simple things my lao po wants but I haven't been giving her enough...
- Good morning/ good night sms
- replying her sms promptly
- initiate sms her instead of she
- spend more time pei her
- when fix an appointment with her, don't last minute change the appointment
- now and then give her a small surpise
- bring her out

see... not very difficult stuff rite?
But I just seem not to do enough.

Lao Po... I promise I'll try k?

2008-08-22T12:50:00.009+08:00

Van:
Is me AGAIN.. OMG Am i noisy? Haha..! Kind of moody and ren shen da dai li for this post..! Well, sometimes there joy but sometimes without it too de (how u define it as well la)..! Life up and down (I have face it le, I believe this will happen again and again) Choice i make.. I won't regret.. Yes at the age of 18 is to enjoy no matter of single or attach.. Enjoy is so important without enjoying you are just totally dead.. Actually the word enjoy is not hard or easy (Is how you define it only) for us to enjoy our whole life till we are totally dead..! If u wan to love someone first love yourself FIRST..! I suffer alot of thing from different things, people blah blah blah..! "Right time, Love Blind, Suffer, Enjoy, Happiness, Sex, Wrong Timing, Blah Blah Blah again" More to go.. Everything always not fully right de..(I believe in this), as i encounter le..! Life is up and down cos the god wants to see how you can handle it..! Just like student is normal to have test and exam once in awhile.. So does adult or even teenage just tat the test is different and more difficult..! Can't put me to I'm blind with love..! I can say I'm not..! ROM is not just a paper but a life time and more commitment on..!

Story

A Couple's Heartbreak
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.
When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.What do you think were the four words?The husband just said "I Love You Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No point in attaching blame.
She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.
We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

2008-08-21T11:55:00.002+08:00

OH YEAH, LAO GONG BRINGING ME OUT TODAY..!

YEAH YEAH YEAH.. WO AI NI LAO GONG.. :D

2008-08-20T15:52:00.012+08:00

Van:
Is me again..
Gosh in another two more day to NAPFA test.. Not well prepare yet, I'm so worry..

I'm so moody this few day, the feeling of it is not right at all.. I don't like the feeling at all, i hate this.. Wat's wrong? >.<

I should be happy with lao gong accompanny me every night/everyday.. But why am i not happy at all? Wat's wrong with me? Lao gong is so nice to me, he trying his best to accompany me as he could.. I should not grumble ar..! Sorry lao gong..! Everyone wish to have their BF accompany them like James did to me..! I miss the time we used to go out and play..! I'm not blaming REALLY..! I don't like this at all..! >.<

Next week test le follow by EXAM.. Oh My, not yet study..! Save me pls..!

Blog is for me to post my feeling up! Blogger horrary..!

[The simple secret to being happy is not to have everything you want, but to want everything that you have.]

[生命是短暂的，所以我们应该想着美好的事，说些好听的话，努力地活得更好，那么你的世界将会是光明和美丽的。失去了金钱，没什么损失；失去了健康，就有点损失；失去了人格，一切都没了。我们要活得像一根蜡烛，点燃自己，也照亮他人。为自己设下生命的定义，否则你就得接受他人的生命定义。以感恩的心回望过去，有信心的活在当下，有希望的展望未来。当你真心关怀莫人，你不会在乎他的过错，他的过失。反之，你接受他的过错，忽略他的借口。]

2008-08-18T19:39:00.005+08:00

Van:
Wat a boring day today..! Whole day is so boring..! And when i'm always not happy he will always say "lao po guai la k" sometimes with the la sometimes without it..! >.<

I don't want to know wat will be happening next..! I'm seriously sick about it..!

I'm having a bed headache out of sudden.. What wrong with me?

I'm really so boring la.. Nothing to write suddenly..!

He will be busy all the way till next year.. Wat can i do? Nothing but to let him be..! The feeling is not good at all.! :(

My long weekend has ended..!
爱是要互相忍让的。。

加油加油！：D

2008-08-16T15:52:00.008+08:00

Van:

Well i think this blog soon belong to mine only.. James is not posting anything at all.. This blog is so quite la.. Super die like this.. I can blog my things here liao.. Fan zhen my mum won't be coming here to read.. She only knows my main one.. And hopefully she won't come la.. Cos i have links after all.. OMG..

Got 'scolded'(Fake, only say me la. Haha) by her.. This is wat she say - "Van, i told u not good to post happy and unhappy things up so much le" Okok, See but blog is for us to be in the way for us to express our feeling out after all..! If not wat the point of having blog for? Well she will say this is not wrong too.. But of course u will think first before posting my thoughts.. and i know wat to blog and not to blog..! Won't blame her..! Heehee.!

Sat is so boring for me now.. Still can remember the past 4week working at G2.. Now back to the first place where we have to wait for James to finish teaching tuition then go out..! Now waiting for my pay now.. So i can spend anything i wan le..! Also must wait for James to get his pay.. Faster faster i can't wait for pay day..!

My IA is coming in a month time.. OMG I'm so excited la..! But heard from my teacher telling us tat only 17 student in our class are going to company, meaning the rest ard 13 students will be going to CPTC..! I'm so confuse of my feeling now la.. Previous time i was still talking about i prefer going CPTC but now somehow i wants to go to a company for my IA..! Just somehow i can't make up my mind..! Wat wrong with me..! Haha..! Ok think i should just let it go..!

Do u people think this blogskin and my main blogskin is the same..! Well simple and nice..! Haha..! Layout different..!

2008-07-30T21:52:00.002+08:00

老公我爱你！

2008-07-06T21:40:00.009+08:00

We are back....

Sat: First went Genting

then KL... Stay over there for 1 night

Morning wake up eat breakfast then continue to shop...

Sun: Then went to Meleka before coming back...

Haha, then i saw G2 over there lei, but quite expensive compair to here...

Saw this shop in KL(Mid Valley) when we was waiting for the shops to open...

Then were dancing inside..! Morning warm up for a better sell????

Genting Pic...

Went to play this...

KL (Mid Valley)

More pic update another day, or maybe another blog as well la...

Well, actually this trip to me was ok only...

Haiz...

To james:

Dear Dear thanks for going when you are still not feeling well...

2008-07-04T12:09:00.006+08:00

Just 'receive' a sad news...

Dear sick liao...

Maybe can't go KL..

How? I'm super sad can..!

Suppose to be last week go KL de,

Change to this week then this week Dear is sick..

Now i have no mood at all lol..

Why when i wan to go KL and Genting,

there are so many problem...

I don't wan to go alone without Dear...

With Mummy and Donald is so boring...

Go shopping with them already so boring...

Don't talk abt going holiday with them...

This trip was suppose to be only me and James de,

Mummy worried so let her join in...

Now without him, i wanted to say i don't wan to go too if he is not going...

But the room has already booked... Wat to do..! Go with a sad feeling.. :(

Tears or maybe i'm Crying...............................??????????

2008-06-25T18:13:00.005+08:00

Tagged by Van
Instructions: Remove 1 question and replace it with your own.
Notify 'em through their tagboard that they've been tagged. [roar tedious!]

1. Who are you chatting with now?
- My lao po lorz…

2. What do you want the most now?
- Hmm… ask my lao po can liaoz

3. What will you be doing at 6pm?
- Just pass lehz… accompany my lao po lorz…

4. Do you hate your friends sometimes?
- Never

5. When do you wish to die?
- … Not before my children grow up and be independent

6. Do you believe in seeing a rainbow after the rain?
- Seen before

7. What impossible things you would wish to do?
- … Teleport?

8. What is your greatest phobia?
- My lao po angry or sad

9. Have you broken someone's heart that he/she tried to commit suicide?
- No lahz

10. What if your crush asked you out?
- Then say yes lorz.

11. When was the last time you fell in love?
- … Now still in love…

12. What feeling do you hate the most?
- When lao po angry or sad…

13. Do you cherish every single friendship of yours?
- Yes. Not easy to be my friend

14. What are you looking forward to in the coming weeks?
- Finishing my project

15. Who do you hope to be always there for you?
- … Still need to say mehz? Just see who’s name came out most frequently in this questionnaire lorz…

16. List words that describe you?
- … lazy… ask my lao po lahz…

17. Would u cry a lot?
- Nahz…

18. When do you plan to settle down?
- 30 yrs old!!! Yeah… My lao po also ok with it!!!

19. Who do you love the most in your life?
- refer to answer for question 15…

2008-06-25T16:45:00.008+08:00

Sat lao gong brought me a Winnie the Pooh...!

Haha

Very Cute lei..!

Winnie is our 'son'

Fake de la, Haha...

Why? Long Story..!

Photo Time

"Family Photo"

Daddy playing with Son
Name: Winnie, Our Son

See Nothing...!

2008-06-22T03:50:00.004+08:00

To my dearest Lao Gong, (ok ok, to James)

Don't spend so much $$$ on me...!

Try to save up k...

Promise?

I will try to save too...!

Knowing tat how important is the money mean to us..!

Sound like i'm talking stupid things lol...

Its 4am now, yet i'm still online...

Nvm, once Mr Chua(Lao Gong)

read this, he will sure come and look or ask me de..!

Heehee..! suddenly mind when blank lol..!

Sleepy le..! Night Night...!

2008-06-18T23:18:00.008+08:00

Ten Rules for a Happy Marriage

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1. Never both be angry at the same time.

2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

3. If one of you has to win an argument let it be your mate.

4. If you must criticize, do it lovingly.

5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.

6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

8. At least once every day say a kind or complimentary word to your life partner.

9. When you have done something wrong, admit it and ask for forgiveness.

10. Remember it takes two to make a quarrel.

__________________________________________________________

In this 10 rules,

My dear make 1 big mistake..

First is Rule No: 6

Next is Rule No: 3, 4, & 8

Actually there more de la...

but i very nice forgive some first...!

Haha...

2008-06-07T21:46:00.000+08:00

Whatever makes you happy
Whatever you want
You're so very special
I wish i was special

2008-05-23T21:29:00.000+08:00

A survey was ask to do by Vanessa aka lao po
Here the 20 people:
1) Vanessa aka lao po
2) Chee Wah
3) Shiqian
4) Xinde
5) Longjin
6) Jinquan
7) Shengzhi
8) Jiehan
9) Weilong
10) Valerie
11) Shuwen
12) Amanda
13) Huijin
14) Weibin
15) Nic
16) Kenglim
17) Chong Geng
18) Shuting
19) Anselm
20) Ee Pin

Q1. How do you meet number 14?
In NUS lorz… My ISE gang…

Q2. What would you do if u not met number 1?
I’ll die?

Q3. What if number 9 & 20 dated each other?
Hmm… 9’s attached. And I don’t think it’s a good match

Q4. Will number 6 & 17 date each other?
They’re GUYS!!!

Q5. Describe number 3
Pig! (His surname is choo/zhu… literally translate is pig)

Q6. Do you think number 8 is attractive?
… I’m not gay…

Q7. Describe number 7
1 great senior!!!

Q8. Do you know any family members of number 12?
Yes. 1 Father. 1 Mother. 1 elder brother. 1 elder sister-in-law. 1 younger brother

Q9. What language(s) does number 15 speaks?
Ang moh, some dialect, and mandarin (his mandarin became better after knowing us)

Q10. Who is number 9 hanging out with?
… obvious enuff rite…

Q11. How old is number 16 this year?
24

Q12. When was the last time you spoke to number 13?
12/05/2008

Q13. Who is number 2 favourite singers or band?
Currently… himself and his gf… I think is fish leong (he always change 1)

Q14. Have you ever dated number 4?
Refer to ans for question 6. (Although I know he loves me)

Q15. Would you ever date with number 1?
… She my wifey…

Q16. Is number 19 single now?
I think so… not sure

Q17. What is number 10 last names?
Choy

Q18. Would you ever be in relationship with number 11?
Not possible… both attached… plus number 1 will kill me…

Q19. What is the school of number 3?
Now… NUS

Q20. Where does number 6 stay?
Somewhere in hougang…

Q21. What is your favourite thing about number 5?
He live nearer my house than the rest of the guys… good for mahjong host!

Q22. Have you ever seen number 2 naked?
Y not?

2008-05-19T17:00:00.000+08:00

This belong to James

Your Five Variable Love Profile

Propensity for Monogamy:

Your propensity for monogamy is high.
You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person.
And in return, you expect the same from who you love.
Any sign of straying, and you'll end things.

Experience Level:

Your experience level is low.
You've probably either had only one relationship..
Or all of your relationships have been very similar.
You still have a lot to learn... and a lot to try!

Dominance:

Your dominance is high.
It's your way or the highway when it comes to love.
You like to be very involved in your sweetie's life.
No question, you like to be the one calling the shots.

Cynicism:

Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.

Independence:

Your independence is medium.
In relationships, you need both "me time" and "we time."
You usually find it easy to be part of a couple.
But occasionally you start to feel a little smothered.

The Five Variable Love Test

This belong to Vanessa

Your Five Variable Love Profile

Propensity for Monogamy:

Your propensity for monogamy is high.
You find it easy to be devoted and loyal to one person.
And in return, you expect the same from who you love.
Any sign of straying, and you'll end things.

Experience Level:

Your experience level is low.
You've probably either had only one relationship..
Or all of your relationships have been very similar.
You still have a lot to learn... and a lot to try!

Dominance:

Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!

Cynicism:

Your cynicism is medium.
You'd like to believe in true and everlasting love...
But you've definitely been burned enough to know better.
You're still an optimist, but you also are a realist.

Independence:

Your independence is low.
This doesn't mean you're dependent in relationships..
It does mean that you don't have any problem sharing your life.
In your opinion, the best part of being in love is being together.

The Five Variable Love Test

2008-05-10T01:01:00.001+08:00

Back to 13 jan08 post dear wrote this to me..

"Definition of sorry (extracted from Encarta® World English Dictionary [North American Edition]:
used as apology: used as an apology for hurting, interrupting, or inconveniencing somebody
apologetic: feeling or expressing regret for an action that has upset or inconvenienced somebody, or is likely to do soWhy should you be sorry?I am the one who hurt you (definition 1)I am the one who felt angry and made you sad. (definition 2)So who should apologise?It should be me.Dear... no more quarrels. Ever. Thats my promise. I still want to call you my 老婆！"

Still remember?

Happy 24th Birthday dear..!

Love u..!

2008-05-08T13:20:00.000+08:00

Yesterday a girl was being scolded at NUH shuttl bus there.

This is was it happened:
The boy was late to meet her,
he was also quite tried coz slepp too late wake up too early.

Then they meet up, the girl was not herself when they met,
and so the boy was more unhappy le.

Then they was talking about going where to watch movie,
and so girl say go Cini or The Cathay also can liao.
coz we can only watch the 9plus one.

As the time was quite late won't be able to make it for 6-7plus movie.
And so they waited at the shuttle bus service.

The boy was quite angry le, after hearing why go watch 9plus movie!
When it end will be quite late.

The girl said nvm la, since she not planning to go to sch the next day.
The boy then ask why don't want to go.
The girl don't wan to reply wat he ask,
as they were at the centre of the shuttle bus seat.

Everyone was looking ( The girl wanted to cry but she hold on to it)
Suddenly the girl mum called (She talked to her)
Boy said "y u don't wan 2 talk to me yet u talk to mummy only?"

The boy then keep asking why you don't wan reply to me.
The girl explain when they reach Dover station then she explain.

The boy don't wan to listen he said "y can;t say it now?
Do u know I CAN JUST WALK AWAY LIKE THIS, WHICH I THINK OF DOING IT"

The girl does not want to talk to him
cos she REALLY feel like crying and every1 around was looking.

At that point of time, the girl was not only sad but angry too.
Cos he really don't understand her. And he does not care about the girl they everyone was looking at her. Looking at her letting yhe boy scolding her in public.
(As everything can talk de ma, but they qureel?)

The girl hear wat he said, her heart was so sad yet she thinks:
"Just let him walk away lol, since he so angry and
does not wan to wait until the MRT station for ur explain."

She started to cry.
He found out the girl was crying then not so angry liao(If i'm not wrong)
She cry all the way until she got up the bus. Tat was long k (20min?)

Agreement on: Not allow to call the girl "Lao Po" for 1 month.
If between the 1 month he called, 1 day will be added.
In the end, they did not go and watch movie la.
Then agreement was also on not calling the girl mum till next sunday.

Recently there are so many qureel between them. (Knowing each other too well liao?)

So fast the girl was still quite sad la. Whenever the girl remembers, she wants to cry.
The girl this morning wake up eye was so pain can't even go to sch
(when she promise the boy that she will go to sch.)

Got to wait for another 1 week for the girl to be back to herself?
Hiaz..!

Love u dear!
This Song explain the felling for the girl.
Song: Nan Ren Nu Ren

2008-05-01T22:24:00.000+08:00

Lol, this blog is not only mine, yet i'm the only one keep posting la...
Today i have so many though on my mind...! Don't know why lei..

Hmm:I wounder if most people are responsible of wat they have done,
The mistake tat most/some people will make easily?
The responsibltites can least how long if people are willing to be responsible?
The word responsible say is easy but doing it it seen hard...!

Getting married with the person u love,
and that is only a paper show tat u all are husband and wife..
It must also have the understanding, trust, communicate,
love between the two of you and etc... And tat will do..!
Does it seen to be hard to achieve too?
To me i find it yes..!

2008-04-12T19:16:00.000+08:00

男的让女的哭，就不是好男人。
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男的没搞清楚，就讲女的也是不好。

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男的随便/想骂女的，不知的女的去爱。

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女的要跟男的讨花，是不够浪漫/不够好。

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男的也可以时常送花或礼物吗。

。

不好的。

。

你是很爱那个女的吗？

。

如果是的话，请好好对待她。

。

2008-04-03T00:35:00.000+08:00

This is really sweet...

When a Girl is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a Girl is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a Girl looks at u with eyes full of questions ..

She is wondering how long you will be around.

When a Girl answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ...
She is not at all fine.

When a Girl stares at you ... She is wondering why you are lying.

When a Girl lays on your chest ... She is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a Girl wants to see you everyday... She wants to be pampered.

When a Girl says ' I love you ' ... She means it.

When a Girl says ' I miss you ' ... No one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person
Find a Guy . who calls you beautiful instead of hot. who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!!

2008-02-13T18:38:00.001+08:00

I love u dear! Happy Valentine's Day..!

..........

I will be waiting 4 u at mummy hus tmr until 12am.. Will u come??

Do u know? Got read ma? :(

2008-02-08T19:07:00.001+08:00

要有一个爱情的开始，是不容易的。

可是维持那一分爱情更不容易。。！

我今天又有问题了。

今天我亲戚的一句话让我有点担心也可以说蛮害怕的。。

Me -Yan Ling

2008-01-16T21:36:00.000+08:00

well, i'm back to myself liao [if i'm not wrong la].. At least i think so can..! haha.. some1 was telling me this late afternoon that this blog is so ugly, ya la i don't know how to do ma..! heehee..

This blog got no tagboard, so the only thing is u all can do is to post comments le..! This blogskin with tagboard looks weird la..!

Today is alone again..!

Relationship

2008-01-14T23:47:00.000+08:00

After a qurreled, I know that getting into a relationship is not easy. To maintan the relationship is more harder than getting into a relationship..

Normally after the qurreled, they gets to understand person.. From all the TV show i have watched, all guy gets to forget easily than the gal.. And the gal heart went so deep down, it's too sad liao..! I totally can understand..!

In last year(First few months, stops after i went back to G2 to work) i try to go hurt each other more than try to be a better myself whenever possible, i wish to stop living at tat time u see..! Grandma saw the suition she went so sad for me and cried, i understand but don't seen to be a reason of me to continue.. Lucky i went back to work and got a sch again to study.. And than stop thinking liao lol..

I'm here trying to say that is a stupid thing to hurt yourself and end up no one else cares.. I try that be4, i know de.. After the qurreled, i felt sad but heart pain for it but i will still continue everything including the relationship(Is hard 4 me to let it go now liao-why must u like that la?)

To be alone is to think until we come to a mind of wat we want to do..! Is not any other things..

Replied

2008-01-14T21:44:00.000+08:00

Is not as easy as we just click on the delete button, and it delete off..
There is a crack after all, it can't be mend it back..
Example if a million piece of glass is broken into pieces how to gule it back? It cannot be done de..!

Don't take it too much too..! I don't wish to remember it too but i just don't know it can't let it forget la.. Maybe gals are like this...!

Kat(Dear) I don't know if u got read the blog here, but thanks for your concern.. Maybe i need the concern is hard to say ba..! I know not use to me begin so polite, but i must still say..

Whenever i have something on my mind, i decided to speak it out or post it up cos keeping alone is not good at least there some1 else who go and read and understand me..!

Sorry

2008-01-14T02:32:00.000+08:00

Definition of sorry (extracted from Encarta® World English Dictionary [North American Edition]:

used as apology: used as an apology for hurting, interrupting, or inconveniencing somebody
apologetic: feeling or expressing regret for an action that has upset or inconvenienced somebody, or is likely to do so

Why should you be sorry?
I am the one who hurt you (definition 1)
I am the one who felt angry and made you sad. (definition 2)

So who should apologise?

It should be me.

Dear... no more quarrels. Ever. Thats my promise. I still want to call you my 老婆！

memory

2008-01-14T02:24:00.000+08:00

The boy always thinks he is old. So being an old boy, he is quite forgetful. Therefore he decides that his limited memory space can only remember only the most precious and important things.

He does not remember any quarrel.

He only remember the times when they had fun, laughter and joy together.

Oops! What happened yesterday? He only remember the part when he and the girl were drafting this contract on theirs. And happily "forcing" each other to add various terms and conditions into it.

PS: Delete off those things that you don't wish to remember. Let only the best and the good remain.

Quarrel

2008-01-13T22:42:00.000+08:00

Hmm, in the afternoon a couple had a quarrel.. It's the first time too...! Guess wat the gal actually cried..! Wat a sad thing lol... Don't know how the guy treat her de le, lucky they came to a agreement with it...!

After the qurreled, the gal got no idea why her mind start to think that he treat her so well and yet she is so not understanding, still so playful....! She knows she is playful sometimes and bu ting hua de ren...! She speak from her heart: She don't really like wat has happenend in the afternoon..! Pls try to understand her she got no idea wat have happenend to her this past few days it don't seen to be herself la..!

Over here with many thanks, million of thanks to the guy, for ur kindness, can stand by next to her, ur understanding...! I promise i will try my best to be a better person...!

:( Sorry Dear...! Sorry Dear..!

A Gal who lost her rainbow, as her sky turn into grey nearly turn dark.. Pls do help her find her rainbow back if possible..! With so much Thanks first..!

Off to our holiday

2007-12-16T23:36:00.000+08:00

bye, we are off to our "honeymoon"

joking only la..! haha update soon ya..!

两个笨蛋

2007-12-10T01:33:00.000+08:00

有一天晚上，女孩发了一则简讯到电台点歌给男孩。结果这对男女就守着收音机旁整夜，甚至连冲凉都把收音机带到冲凉房里。

结果那则简讯没被念出。

Pls read, its meaningful

2007-11-28T15:47:00.000+08:00